Free Riding Men with Inferiority Complex

Dear Beautiful Soul,

Today I’m split between sharing an insignificant (but worrying) event of the day and writing another post on the topic I’d originally decided.

My disgust over the event is now taking over and unfortunately, I have to report my condition. Don’t worry, there is a happy ending 🙂

As a civilization, we are nearing the end if this is a common theme in the dating world.

My friend (let's call her A) is betrothed to a man, quite ordinary with a decent job and looks. It’s an arranged understanding between families. Several months into her engagement this guy seems like a perfect fit (on the outside).

A has an amazing, well-paying job that she loves. She’s a kind-hearted soul, always ready to help others, writing cheques like her money is free. She had been posting pictures of dining at fancy places on her socials with the guy but looking quite dim.

I recently learned that he’d been mining her gold through cheap tricks like “forgetting the wallet at home”, “borrowing money”, etc. This “quintessential” nice guy has been free-riding all along for months!

During a confrontation, this man dared to tell my friend that her “kindness” was a facade and that spending money was a way to make him feel inferior!

HAHAHHAHA!

This is a typical insecure man behavior; far too common than we acknowledge.

This anecdote has a few takeaways that women should always remember so that they are not trapped by such poor-quality people.

1. Girls, let a man PROVIDE for you. There is a difference between giving occasional gifts to your man and going all out like he’s your child.

2. Don’t trust his words easily. Dusty dudes run their mouths all day with no action.

3. Women, just through their existence, and their presence, provide healing energy to men. So try not to give something away without an energy exchange in terms of commitment from them.

4. Men are always harvesting your energy. Even through text message; even if they have no intentions of commitment with you. Don’t give it away for free.

5. Your Aura, Presence, and Consciousness are gifts. Don’t let anyone take them for granted.

There are these men making rounds on social media shaming women for asking for the bare minimum from the masculine. Ask these men if they’ll still uphold the relationship if their women stop delivering as well. They’ll have no answer.

All in all, girls get your bag ($$$) and leave out the door. Your femininity will find its correct match when you stop dealing with low lives.

Unapologetically,

Zitni Zun <3

P.S.: A has called off the engagement and is now on a flight to Australia for vacation!

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