My loves, 🌸

There is no hurry to fall in love. 💖

I wish I learned this sooner. 🌱

I’ve loved Love as far back as I can remember. 

To clarify - not just Romantic, racy love from the tattered copies of Mills & Boon hidden away in the dust at old bookshops. 📚✨

And not just the classics love like Pride & Prejudice (my favorite) that contain subtle expressions of love over bold directness. 💌

I love the Divinity in love.

That something can be so pure and unselfish -

like the shade of a tree, 🌳

the joy of experiencing a painting at the museum that someone created with great affection (or affliction), 🎨🖼️

the delight of experiencing our wish fulfilled through divine intervention, 🌠

or simply when a toddler runs to us with open arms - trusting us fully. 🤗

I love that there is so much love to give and receive in this world. 🌎💕

Unfortunately, my expectation of love through Art and Literature did not prepare me for the changed definition of love today.

This is for the Women who haven’t settled for half-ass conditional love. 🌹

When women wave goodbye to male approval in their lives, they become the main characters of their stories. 👑

And that is terrifying to men. They will villainize her.

Because you can’t tame such a fierce force of nature. 🌪️

She is so in touch with her intuition, that she will call your BS right away. 🧘‍♀️

You can’t sell her cheap lies - like she has to “earn” your love or do things that will “make him fall in love” with you.

She doesn’t need any external validation. 🔥

She isn’t scared of being alone! 🌙

She learns, grows, lives life fully, dies, and re-births herself all over again. 🌱🦋

She finds strength in her identity, her individuality. 💪

She knows how to entertain herself in her own company. 🌟

She knows how to please herself; and buy herself tasteful things in life. 💎

Having a relationship with such a Woman requires Respect and Integrity. 🕊️

You can’t tell her what to do. ❌

You can’t impress her easily. 🎯

And that irritates a lot of Men who don’t want to put in the work. 😠

Women who know their Worth, and know their Purpose - are highly Inconvenient. 🛡️

She has High Standards. 🌹

She can’t be bought with gifts, however expensive. 🎁

You can’t fool her with Sob stories or try to Trauma Bond with her. 🚫

She’s way ahead in her Healing journey and will not allow Negativity in her Space. 🌿

It takes an Army to keep up with a Woman like that. 🛡️🌸

And this is Why,

Ultimately these Women are Sour Grapes for Men who can’t have them! 🍇

Today, society is operating from very low standards. There is too much choice (though equally broken hearts). 💔

But I’m glad many of us are Waking Up, and working on ourselves. Keeping faith that we will meet our energetic match. ✨

It’s better to fulfill our needs than have someone disappoint us with a shoddy job. 🛠️

So my Dear Ladies, Rise above the Emotional Manipulation and Reset your Crown. 👑

You Deserve the same Love and Respect that you give out so Selflessly. 💖

Love,

Zitni Zun 💫