The Prince Charming Delusion: Why Women Must Lead the Shift

Hi my loves!

Have you noticed the obsession with the 6’5” blue-eyed, trust fund-backed dream guy? 😵‍💫 This fantasy has been floating around the internet for a while, and honestly, it’s shocking how many women buy into it.

And it’s not just women—both men and women expect the highest standard in dating and marriage without putting in the work to attract the opposite gender.

The Harsh Reality: Are You What You Demand?

Everyone wants the best—a high-value, attractive, successful partner—but what about becoming someone worth that?

Yet, nobody wants to put in the effort.

• To look good and stay healthy.

• To cultivate grace, charm, and respect in interactions.

• To speak well, dress well, and act with confidence.

Instead, we see a culture of affirmations without action.
 🔹 “I deserve only the best.”
🔹 “I am a Queen.”
🔹 “I won’t settle.”

That’s great for self-love, but self-improvement must match self-worth. No amount of affirmations will keep a high-value partner if you bring nothing to the table in return.

The Feminist Trap: Are Women Selling Themselves Short?

Feminism has convinced many women that they are all "prizes" by default, guaranteed a rich, handsome, high-status man who will worship them.

But what about values? What about morality? What about genuine love and partnership? 💡

Too many women overlook competent, good-hearted, high-character men—the ones who would actually invest in them—because they’re fixated on surface-level desirability.

But here’s the thing: like attracts like. Even if you do land a hot, rich guy, can you keep him? If you only offer looks, sooner or later, someone else will offer more.

Why Men Are No Longer Investing in Women

The sad truth? Men are checking out.

• Many regular men feel like they’re just being used—for money, security, or emotional labor.

• With modern feminism, hookup culture, and easy access to casual encounters, men don’t feel the need to commit or improve themselves anymore.

• Porn addiction has further killed their desire for real emotional bonds.

When every woman is chasing the top 1% of men, why should regular guys even try? Who are they leveling up for?

The Solution: Women Must Restore the Balance

Women have the power to change the dating market. How? By shifting their focus:
✅ Choosing men based on competence, values, and integrity—not just looks or wealth.
 ✅ Encouraging men to step up, by being women worthy of commitment.
 ✅ Leading with feminine grace, not entitlement.

When women start valuing the right things, men will have a reason to become better. Society thrives when men and women bring out the best in each other. ❤️

Feminine Energy can inspire an entire system to change—but it has to start somewhere.

Are you ready to be part of that shift? 💫

Love,
Zitni Zun