A Man Satisfies, A Boy Plays: The Truth About Sex & Energy 🔥

Hi My Loves! 💕

Yesterday, we talked about extreme sex cultures, the inversion of sex from a gift to a temporary transaction, from lovemaking to mere release—and how society is becoming both too orthodox and too liberal at the same time.

We also explored how, due to various health conditions, people no longer desire sex in their lives.

Let’s expand more on these. 👇

Why Is Sexual Desire Disappearing? 🤔

A lack of sexual desire is directly linked to:

⚡ Chronic stress
⚡ Unhealed trauma
⚡ Hormonal imbalances
⚡ General health issues

Sexual energy is deeply connected to one’s self-concept and identity. If these are being challenged, it's natural to experience a drop in desire.

💡 Sexual energy is tied to the sacral chakra — the center of creativity, emotions, and joy.

The Problem With Orthodox Societies ⛓️

One major reason for lost desire is the belief in orthodox societies that men and women should stay in bad marriages.

❌ This is a deeply anti-human belief, especially common in the Indian subcontinent.

This is why I believe more in core philosophies (like Ayurveda and Daoism) rather than organized religion—because they do not label things as “good” or “bad.”

✅ They teach you how to use your sexual energy productively.
 ✅ They do not shame women for enjoying sex.

Why This Matters for Women 💃🔥

🌿 Women’s power has been suppressed for centuries. 🌿

Many cultures impose strict rules to ensure women never discover the full extent of their femininity.

📌 Women are hurried into marriage
 📌 Pressured to have children
 📌 Told to dedicate their lives to family & home

Meanwhile, men’s desires are fulfilled freely. 😒

A woman’s natural creativity, joy, and sexuality are buried within the four walls of her home—but when a woman is in touch with her femininity, something magical happens:

✨ Her energy skyrockets
 ✨ Her health improves
 ✨ Her eyes shine with vitality
 ✨ She becomes an unstoppable creator

Why Women’s Sexuality Is Still Taboo 🙄

Even in the 21st century, talking about women’s sexual desires is frowned upon.

🔹 A woman with low or no desire is seen as modest.
🔹 A woman with active desire is labeled with derogatory terms.

Yet, history proves otherwise.

🏺 Artifacts of Ancient India are proof of the core philosophies of the land - they celebrate a woman’s beauty, sexuality, and energy.
💆‍♂️ Just to receive the healing touch of a woman was considered a divine gift!

But today, we are regressing—not progressing.

The Problem With Modern “Sexual Freedom” 😵‍💫

It’s laughable when people say that society is “sexually free”.

🚫 Hyper-feminist movement promotes promiscuity—this is counterproductive to women’s true sexuality.
🚫 Labels are given to everyone—yet no one understands sex as a cultivation of energy and love.

💭 Sex today is seen as just a way to “blow off steam” rather than something sacred.

But good sex should be more than just physical:

🌟 It should convert Qi (life force energy) and Jing (essence) into Shen (spirit).

The Female Sexual Experience vs. The Male Perspective 😏

Here’s a fact that many still don’t understand:

💥 A woman’s body can experience things a man can’t comprehend.
 💥 She is capable of multiple orgasms that men will never know.

But instead of celebrating this, the internet is filled with sexual “dad jokes” objectifying women.

🙃 Yet, if a woman openly enjoys sex? That’s unacceptable!

The biggest misconception is that a man’s role in sex is simply to release.

💡 The truth? A man’s deepest satisfaction should come from his woman being satisfied—in bed AND life. 💏

This discussion isn't over! A final word on this topic in the next newsletter!

Love,

💖 Zitni Zun 💖